...I think I'm a horrible friend...

[tj_dragonblade]

Well, after finally having a chance to catch up online after...four days or so, it seems half the f-list has been having difficulties of one sort or another in life and are now coming back out the other side. And...I feel like a horrible person somehow because I wasn't around to offer any sort of support. Not that my support really means much of anything to anyone, really; perhaps I'm just being egotistical. But...I mean, my social life *is* online. I care far more about the lot of you than I do about most of the folks I interact with on a daily basis, family aside. Y'know? And when time doesn't permit me to be online, and I'm out of that social 'environment'...I feel terribly left out, somehow. And neglectful of the people who matter to me, whether or not I have ever or will ever meet them...

(sighs)(shakes head) I'm going to get myself depressed, here...I think there are old comments somewhere I should be answering...(slinks off, trying to dispel the cloudy mood)

Comments

[deathlike.livejournal.com]

I know you are good friend, since I added you, but sometimes is hard to offer help when help is needed because of our daily lives. Don't get yourself down because of that.

[tj-dragonblade.livejournal.com]

Thanks.

(huggles the still-adorable icon)

[sychogrl.livejournal.com]

I think it's pretty well understood around here that life away from the computer can interfere more than most of us like. It's understandable. The good thing is, we still love ya even when you're gone.

*hug*

[tj-dragonblade.livejournal.com]

Odd, somehow...virtual hugs are just as comforting as real ones. Heh. ^_^

Thanks.

[deathlike.livejournal.com]

More virtual hugs then! *hugs you to death*

[sychogrl.livejournal.com]

Plus, you don't have to worry about catching any icky diseases! :D

You're Welcome!

[aliaswestgate.livejournal.com]

Joining in belatedly here. ^_^ *Hugs ya*

Yes they are, aren't they? And don't worry if you can't always be here. We all understand if real life interferes.

[hemlock-inyx.livejournal.com]

^_^ Yay! Group Glomp!!

*Joins the hugging spree*

[tj-dragonblade.livejournal.com]

^_^ I feel so delightfully loved...

[deathlike.livejournal.com]

Nyuh~ You can't escape my hugs!

[yomigaere.livejournal.com]

It's okay... I know that it's hard to be able to check up on how everyone's doing every day because daily life, what with work, school, work, school, piles of homework, chaos, etc. ><; It's hard to reply to everyone; support here, random crack comment there, a little love here, more support over there, and there, and even right here... we get busy, we all know that, and it's okay. It doesn't mean that you didn't care; even -if- you weren't around to show it.

*hug* ^^-

[zalia.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

Don't worry about it ^^ RL interferes with everyone sometimes and we know you care *huggles*

You know we love you....

[hemlock-inyx.livejournal.com]

*one more hug for good measure*

Ok babe, enough wallowing. *Stern, Duo voice*

No, you're not perfect 'Fei, but we love you anyway, so stop beating yourself about it. When we feel neglected. We'll let ya know.

^_~

Re: You know we love you....

[tj-dragonblade.livejournal.com]

...sadly, I can't think of any suitably Chang-like response to that.

So I'll simply have to settle for a heartfelt 'thank you'.

Thank you.

^_^

[entitys.livejournal.com]

don't worry about it Teej, you're still our favorite sister whether you're around or not. we know you care and we're sure everyone else does too. 'sides if you're capable of thinking you're a horrible friend, then that means you aren't. much love to you from us. *hug*